Ssenga Justine Nantume has opened up about an unlucky romantic expertise with a ‘musama’ that utterly shifted her perspective on relationships.
Ssenga Nantume shared that she as soon as received concerned with a musama—a time period used to explain Ugandans working or dwelling overseas, significantly in Europe or America. The connection, nevertheless, turned out to be a nightmare, leaving her with a bitter style for males from overseas.
Reflecting on it, Ssenga Nantume stated the expertise was so traumatic that it influenced her alternative of companions. She now prefers relationship males with sensible professions, resembling builders, mechanics, farmers, or fishermen, whom she believes are extra grounded and trustworthy.
With out naming the person, whom she described as now being in style in Uganda, Ssenga Nantume recounted an incident involving cash. She revealed that the musama gave her $2 or $3, and on the time, she believed she had struck gold.
I even referred to as my brother within the village and informed him I had received sufficient cash to purchase land.
Nevertheless, her pleasure rapidly turned to disappointment when she went to a foreign exchange bureau to alternate the {dollars}.
The quantity they supplied shocked me. I believed they wished to steal my cash, so I left and went to a different foreign exchange bureau. Similar story. I lastly went to Arua Park and requested a girl how a lot it was value, and she or he informed me the identical factor.
I felt so damage that I walked all the way in which from Arua Park to Ndeeba.